In many ways blind dating is much like any other type of dating. The basic issues of dating are still there, but you do need to be more careful on a blind date. Just as with any other date, you want a blind date to go well so that you can get a second date with that person. Another factor with blind dating is getting set up with a great date. While this may not always be under your control, there are some ways that you can take some initiative.
The key to a blind date is setting yourself up for the second date. Arranging a fun date and being interesting to the other person are two keys to getting a second date. Take an active interest in what your date has to say. Doing this will let them know that you want get to know them better. Also, try talking about subjects that you really enjoy. This will make you sound more natural and more interesting.
Dressing to impress is important on a blind date. When meeting someone for the first time you need to make a good impression. You won’t always know how much a blind date already knows about you, but it’s a good idea to show up for the date looking as though you have put some effort into your appearance. Your date will appreciate the effort and be flattered by your going out of your way to impress them.
Always exercise caution in meeting a blind date. Even if you are being set up by a close friend, you can’t be sure how well they know the person they are setting you up with. It’s best to set up an initial meeting in a well lit and populated location. Never agree to meet someone you don’t know at an isolated place, especially their home or yours. Although your blind date may be a wonderful person with good intentions, it’s better to be safe than sorry.
Sometimes getting yourself set up with a great blind date can be a challenge. Your friends may be interested in setting you up with someone they think is just perfect for you, but try not to agree to go on a blind date that is set up by someone who doesn’t know you well. Those who know you best are most likely to set you up with a compatible blind date. Don’t hesitate to drop hints to your close friends about what you are looking for in a date.
It’s important to make an honest effort to have a good time on your blind date. If you go into a blind date with the attitude that it won’t work out, you will just be setting yourself up for a bad experience. This is a waste of your time and theirs, and may discourage your friends from arranging future blind dates for you. Your date may sense your lack of enthusiasm and thus won’t be inspired to put much effort into having a good time either.
Another tip for blind dating is to make sure to end the date appropriately. Some people suggest that when going on a blind date, you have a backup plan arranged, such as having a friend call you shortly after the date starts to give you an excuse to leave if things aren’t working. You’ll have to decide for yourself if doing this just is right for you. Some may think it to be rude, but if done correctly, it can also save time and embarrassment.
Be sure to read the second half of this blind date article for more great tips on enjoying your date.
